Do you remember the song “Strange Things” from the first Toy Story movie? It’s the song that plays during the montage of how Woody’s life changes when the new toy–Buzz Lightyear–takes over Andy’s room as the coolest toy in town. Woody feels rejected and alone as he sees all of his friends become so fascinated with Buzz that they ignore him completely. The scenery of the room changes to “outer space stuff” everywhere. Consider the lyrics:
“Strange Things”
Written by Randy Newman
I was on top of the world
it was right in my pocket
I was living the life
things were just the way they should be
When from out of the sky like a bomb comes some little punk in a rocket
now all of a sudden some strange things are happening to me
I had friends,
I had lots of friends
Now all my friends are gone
And I’m doing the best I can to carry on
I had power (power)
I was respected (respect)
But not any more
And I’ve lost the love to the one whom I adored
Let me tell you about the strange things are happening to me
Strange things
Strange things are happening to me…
Ain’t no doubt about it
You got someone you think you know well
It turns out a stranger
The minute you turn your back
You’re in it all by yourself
They laugh at your jokes,
You think you’re doing well
But you’re in danger, boy
You end up alone, forgotten, way up on the shelf
Strange things are happening to me
Strange things
Strange things are happening to me
Ain’t no doubt about it
Strange things are happening to me
Strange things
Strange things are happening to me
Strange things (x2)
When I read these lyrics from a spiritual perspective, it reminds me of Peter’s advice to the early Christians who were going through difficult times as they were being persecuted for their faith. Read I Peter 4:12-19 (emphasis mine)
“Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you: But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ’s sufferings; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy. If ye be reproached for the name of Christ, happy are ye; for the spirit of glory and of God resteth upon you: on their part he is evil spoken of, but on your part he is glorified. But let none of you suffer as a murderer, or as a thief, or as an evildoer, or as a busybody in other men’s matters. Yet if any man suffer as a Christian, let him not be ashamed; but let him glorify God on this behalf. For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God? And if the righteous scarcely be saved, where shall the ungodly and the sinner appear? Wherefore let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls to him in well doing, as unto a faithful Creator.” (KJV)
In the NASB, I Peter 4:12 says, “Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal among you, which comes upon you for your testing, as though some strange thing were happening to you; ” (emphasis mine)
This verse is frequently referenced in sermons and books, which deal with facing trying times or circumstances such as: illness, family issues, job problems, false accusations, financial difficulties, death of a loved one, and spiritual persecution. I’ve heard this verse quoted so many times over the years all the way back to my childhood in a Christian home, church, and school. Of course, I didn’t get it until high school, but since then, I’ve endured my own personal share of “strange things” as I am sure you have as well.
There have been so many books written trying to explain or answer our desperate questions as they relate to suffering and the “unfairness” of life. Our questions range from “Why me?” to “Why not the other guy who doesn’t really love God like I do?” If we’re truly being honest, some of our questions, asked only in the silence of our minds, are harsh, angry, and judgmental. We judge God for not treating us “well.” “Hey, I’m faithful. I teach small group. I tithe. I set up chairs every week before the service. My family did 3 shoeboxes for OCC this year. My kids are in AWANA.” We judge non-Christians for not suffering “as much” as we are suffering. “God, why is my car stalling at every red light when my mean-spirited neighbor, who not-so-subtly brags about his “tax shelters,” has a brand new convertible and is going on a cruise next week.” We judge fellow brothers and sisters in Christ for their “perfect” lives. “Lord, why do the Youth Pastor and his wife have six beautiful children and a great life when we can’t even get pregnant and we’re fighting all the time.” We judge the people in the Bible by our own modern standards. “Look God, things weren’t like this back in the Old Testament. I mean, those guys didn’t have to watch their daughter being bullied on Facebook or attacked on Twitter. My daughter cries everyday, and why can’t You do some Old Testament thing like open the concrete at her school and swallow up the cyber-bullies?”
We’re hurting. It’s okay to ask these and other questions. Based on all the biblical evidence and principles, it’s okay to be angry when you’ve been hurt and/or when your life is falling apart (see Job, David, and any of the prophets). Job questions God chapter after chapter as he sits there covered in sores surrounded by his judgmental friends. David shows strong evidence of being clinically depressed in many of the Psalms as he begs God for help to fight off both his external enemies of his kingdom and the internal enemies within his own family.
I’ve had moments where I’ve screamed, beat on a pillow, and once, when I was really upset and frustrated about all the trials that were literally hitting me from every direction; I went out into the woods and beat a dead tree with an old shower curtain rod until the tree broke in half (Don’t stop reading; no one was hurt, and the tree was dead). I’ve scribbled in journals with both words, long paragraphs, and mindless doodles. I believe it’s important to let the anger go since the Bible’s teaching on anger is that it’s okay to be angry; it’s not okay to sin because you’re angry. Ephesians 4:26 states, “Be angry, and do not sin: do not let the sun go down upon your wrath,” (NKJV).
It’s not going to be easy to get through the trials you are facing now. You will come out with some scars, bruises, and pain; however, you will survive. Scroll back up to the song “Strange Things,” and read it again. I love Toy Story. The trilogy is one of the best series ever made, and the first movie, is one of my all-time favorites. I even dressed up like Jessie, the yodeling cowgirl, for a skit at church one Sunday morning.
I look at the song “Strange Things” in a totally different light than I did when I saw the first movie as a recent high-school grad. I see the song as a perfect metaphor for our reflex response to the “strange things” which come our way on our life’s journey. If you’ve seen Toy Story, you may remember that, in the end, Buzz and Woody become best friends; and each of them has accepted that they are loved by their owner and by their friends regardless of how “strange” things become. In Toy Story 3, both Buzz and Woody face, and eventually accept, that painful changes may come, but the end result can have surprising and wonderful results (see Romans 8:28). In a much more profound and magnificent way, you and I are loved by our Creator. His love will never change. Unlike the toys in the Toy Story trilogy, He won’t donate us to a thrift store, sell us at a yard sale, or give us away to someone else, when He’s “outgrown” us. In fact, just as both Woody and Buzz have “Andy” written on the bottom of their feet, as a sign of ownership, possession, and love; so to do all Christians. The names of all those people who have put their faith and trust in Christ are written in the Lamb’s Book of Life (see Revelation 13). Luke 10:20b says, “but rejoice that your names are written in Heaven.” (ESV).
There are sometimes “bad guys,” like Sid in the first Toy Story film, or terrible circumstances that seem to enjoy taking us down, destroying us, or metaphorically, strapping us to a rocket, as is Buzz’s fate. We will survive. We will go on. It is up to us to decide if we thrive. Are you going to stay angry and hide under the bed like Woody did or are you going to brave each day, each move (Andy moves twice in the trilogy), and each moment that is not what you expect and most of the time, certainly not exactly what you want? In Toy Story 3, the main characters/toys, literally face a “fiery trial” as they are nearly incinerated at the landfill, yet they are saved. They come out stinky, smoky, and not quite as pretty as they were, but they make it; and they later realize that they are still loved very much.
Back to the real world of trials, I keep going though the trials continue to ebb and flow. I may have to go find another old shower curtain rod at some point, but I’m not quitting. I know that I’m loved, that I’m precious to God, that I’m worth dying for, and that I’m accepted. God loves you so much. I can’t explain why this trial is happening to you right now, but I encourage to trust, not that it all work out how you want it to, but that God will work it out for His glory and for your personal growth. One of my favorite Bible professors in college taught that God allows everything for a “purpose” not a “reason.” Over the years, so many well-meaning people have said to me, “God has a reason for this.” My professor said that “a reason for it” is the wrong way to look at it. He said “a purpose” implies much more. He went so far as to correct all of his students when we would say, “God had a reason.” He would hold up one finger, and say, “No, God has a purpose.” His teaching changed my perspective, and I now humbly correct my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ when the opportunity is appropriate. I want them to feel the freedom I’ve felt since embracing “God’s purpose” over “God’s reason” for something happening in both my and others’ lives.
The next time, a trial starts in your life or even now, as you are facing a trial, sing the chorus of “Strange Things.”
Strange things are happening to me
Strange things
Strange things are happening to me
Ain’t no doubt about it
After that, follow it up with by reading or quoting all the Scriptures you can find regarding trials, temptations, fear, and anxiety. Then, finish up, by singing your favorite hymns and spiritual songs. “Google” Christian songs about fear and trials until you find some new songs to add to your repertoire. Learn these new songs. Be prepared to face what’s coming. Do not let the “strange things” take you down. If all else fails, pick up your foot and look at the bottom of your shoe or bare foot and envision the names of God and Jesus written across it. You are His child; His heir. You belong.
“Because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” Therefore you are no longer a slave, but a son; and if a son, then an heir through God.” Galatians 4: 6-7 (NASB)
“But I am like an olive tree flourishing in the house of God; I trust in God’s unfailing love for ever and ever.” Psalm 52:8 (NIV)